“When I first met Pam, little did I know that this chance meeting would be the catalyst to change my life for the better. I have always been a person with deep emotions and thoughts and sometimes lost within them. Having had it tough growing up it was always hard for me to open up and say how I was feeling. It was always easy to live within these thoughts as a comfort blanket. Usually when I met someone, I liked I would make a meal of it and mess things up. I would think that was because I was trying too hard or perhaps sometimes not taking time to understand the girl I would meet or was with but in actual fact, I didn’t understand myself and felt I wasn’t good enough. I carried around an aura of fear of rejection and being scared to take a chance. Every relationship I had ended up broken but a lot of it was because I didn’t understand myself. When Pam suggested that initially I have a dating analysis, I thought I had nothing to lose.
I am a professional who has done well in my career, surely there is someone out there for me? Funny thing is I’ve tried dating sites/apps even a few family intros but nothing happened. You begin to question yourself and where you are heading in life especially in this respect. After the dating analysis, it became apparent that I needed coaching. This was a game changer for me. Yes there is work to do even now, but the way I think has changed completely. Pam saw how my energy and aura was just attracting negativity. The coaching gets quite deep and makes you look at aspects of your life that you lock up in your head and want to leave behind in the past where they belong. However, these things prevent you from moving forward as it’s like having unfinished business that just never gets finished.
The coaching made me address these issues in bite sized pieces. It made me realise that the only thing that can hold me back is me. We all have good days and bad. Sometimes the bad outweigh the good but it’s about adding perspective to this. The coaching really made me look at things in a different light. Pam takes things at your pace, challenges your insecurities and helps you to look at the bigger picture. I see things from a brighter side now and this has opened me up to more opportunities in life in general.
I am confident I will find “the one” soon enough and that will be down to Pam and her coaching.